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Dealing With Infidelity--Why It Hurts Him More
The fact is infidelity is one of the leading causes of divorce in America. It has become common practice for one of the spouses to committ this act just because he or she feels they can. It is a known fact that women deal with it better and are more likely to forgive their spouse than the other way around. This may be due to anticipation; that all men cheat. Regardless to what it is men become emotional wrecks when it happens against them. Why does it hurt him more when the woman commits the act? Let's explore why.
Men are known for their lack of being emotional intact or being emotional at all. We have a tendency to hide our emotions because we don't want to seem week or let ourselves become vulnerable. We are also territorial. Notice that he will protect his woman from all who seem to be interested in her. It is these two attributes that answer the above question.
When you are able to connect to a man emotionally, you have broken down the wall that protects his heart from the vulnerability he hides. This is the time that he asks you to be his wife. After the vows and the I do's, life as a married couple begins and for whatever reason, you decide that someone else can offer you what you lack or feel you lack at home. Now the husband finds out that someone has been sneeking into his private property, poking around and digging up his fertile ground. Someone has been planting seeds where only he can tend the ground.
No man wants his property disturbed for he knows that once it has been, the value it once held has decreased making the desire to maintain it less appealing. When it is disturbed the husband then is forced to come out of his comfort zone to make a decision about what to do with his once prized field which has been vandalized by someone he may or may not know.
So it destroys a husband to know that the woman he gave his heart to by allowing her in his space has also destroyed it by letting someone in the field for which only the husband has the right tool to cultivate. This is why it hurts him more in dealing with infidelity.
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